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ROW80: Kicking and Screaming!

 
Why do I still say Kicking and Screaming?
 

Besides loving that caricature on the left,
 

I have never liked setting goals!
 

Someone last week encouraged me to keep putting myself out there. And as that person may not have been referring to my ROW80 goals, I think this is an essential way to move forward to meet that challenge. šŸ™‚
 

So here we goā€¦
 

The dreaded check-in
 

First Iā€™d like to say a big thank you to all who have dropped by to support me with my ROW80 goals! You guys are fabulous! Really, I mean it! Since Jenny Hansen didnā€™t get a chance to stop by last week to kick my butt into gear because she is so super busy (No duh!), I kinda feel like I got away with something! But I canā€™t expect that to happen two weeks in a row! So I best get busy! LOL!
 

Letā€™s take a look at how I did last week, shall we?ā€¦
 
 

Goals for Round 1:
 
 
1- Work on my current WIP five days a week.
 
Uh, nope. Nothing happened again. Then I read Kristen Lambā€™s post on Friday, which I must say was one of the best blogs she has ever written! ā€œ3 Steps to Freedomā€”Grab Hold of Your Brilliant Future!ā€ Iā€™m sure the post wasnā€™t written specifically just for me. Iā€™m mean really who am I? But oh boy, did she ever make me think. Whew! Iā€™ve been so overwhelmed with everything lately that I havenā€™t known where or what to start working on. Well let’s just say that her post really helped.
 
 
2- Check in with Donna Newton at WWBC once a week.
 
Yep, talked to Donna about my dilemma with my WIPs.
 
 
3- Participate in my online class to help authors balance writing and business with Bob Mayer.
 
This week Bob gave us an assignment that was an emotional brain burner. Really Bob, it took me days to get through it. I wanted to take my time and get the most out of the exercise. It was about our personality traits and how we can get in our own way and keep ourselves from succeeding. Amazing stuff.
 
 
4- Blog at least once a week.
 
Well what do you know? Yep, I posted on Wednesday and it was my very first Mash-Up! That seems to be a good day for me and Iā€™ve received some awesome comments and support. Thank you all, I really appreciate it! šŸ™‚
 
 
5- Visit and support 5 bloggers per day.
 
Check. Did that. There are some awesome blog posts out there. Itā€™s nearly impossible to get to them all. So following Fabio Buenoā€™s advice, I set up a system. I took our WANA1011 class list with everybodyā€™s blog site. I go down the list, one by one, and when Iā€™ve finished reading a blog, I date it. That way I know when I last visited that blog. Iā€™m trying to work through the entire list and visit everyone. Of course Iā€™ve added others who were not in our class as I visit them.
 
 
6- Tweet at least once per day.
 
Check. Did that at least twice, if not three times per day. It doesnā€™t take that long. Ten minutes perhaps at a time. I like to skim through the columns to find tweets to RT. Again, it is my intention is to support others!

 
 
7- Exercise on my elliptical twice a week.
 
Well, uhā€¦not much. I got on that thing on Monday and it felt great. Then the week fell apart. But at least I got on it last week, which is more than I can say about the week before. Baby steps. šŸ™‚
 
 

So now Iā€™m looking forward to a fresh new start to this week.
 
 

Whew, okay I did it. That wasnā€™t really so bad. And Iā€™m not alone. There are others that are right beside me to help me along the way. So that I donā€™t irritate my wonderful supportive subscribers, feel free to delete my ROW80 posts if they start to irritate you. They probably wonā€™t be all that interesting, unlessā€¦
 

Unless I can temp you all to join us over at the party at ROW80! Feel free to jump in anytime. See you there! šŸ™‚
 
 

So what do you think? How did I do? I wasnā€™t able to meet all my goals, but are you all still behind me? Can I still count on your support?
 

Awe, thanks guys! I knew I could count on you!
Karen.

 
 
 

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Row80: Kicking and Screaming!

The dreaded check-in
 
 
Okay, I thought before Jenny Hansen comes over here and grabs me by the throat that I would kick my own butt in gear and get my Row80 post up!
 

Well, letā€™s take a look at how I did last weekā€¦
 

It was not a pretty picture. In fact I donā€™t know why I am bothering with this because last week was absolutely crazy. And for those of you that know me, Hubby had surgery at the beginning of the week, which was no small task and that threw the whole week off, though not completely.
 

Shall we take a peak? Although seriously, itā€™s not worth looking at. But here it goesā€¦
 
 

Goals for Round 1:
 
 
1- Work on my current WIP five days a week.
 
Uh, nope. No surprise there. I could not mentally get into it. I was zapped.
 
 
2- Check in with Donna Newton at WWBC once a week.
 
Donna was in L.A. and then I was busy with Hubby.
 
 
3- Participate in my online class to help authors balance writing and business with Bob Mayer.
 
Aha! This I did participate in and turned in my assignment as well. ļŠ
 
 
4- Blog at least once a week.
 
Well what do you know? Yep, I posted. And what a wonderful guest post by Tim L. Oā€™Brien. It was an awesome piece of writing. Great job Tim. Thank you!
 
 
5- Visit and support 5 bloggers per day.
 
Check. Believe it or not, I did find time for that. Just donā€™t ask me how I did it. And yet again I found some wonderful blog posts too!
 
 
6- Tweet at least once per day.
 
Check. Did that more than once. How did I do that? All I can say is that from the start of this, my intention is to support others!
 
7- Exercise on my elliptical twice a week.
 
Well, uhā€¦Nada. That didnā€™t happen either. There simply wasnā€™t any time and I was pooped.
 

So now Iā€™m looking forward to a fresh new start to this week!
 
 

Whew, okay I did it. That wasnā€™t really so bad. And Iā€™m not alone. There are others that are right beside me to help me along the way. So that I donā€™t irritate my wonderful supportive subscribers, feel free to delete my ROW80 posts if they start to irritate you. They probably wonā€™t be all that interesting, unlessā€¦
 

Unless I can temp you all to join us over at the party at ROW80! Feel free to jump in anytime. See you there! ļŠ
 
 

So what do you think? How did I do? I wasnā€™t able to meet all my goals, but are you all still behind me? Can I still count on your support?
 
 

Awe, thanks guys! I knew I could count on you!
Karen.

 
 
 

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ROW80: Kicking and Screaming!


The dreaded Check-in
 
 

Has it been a week already? Wow! Where did the time go?
 
 

I donā€™t know about you, but last week was so busy, especially with the WANA1011 Blogfest Awards.
 
 

Wasnā€™t that amazing? I just want to thank everyone for their wonderful participation that helped make it such a great success!
 
 

Well, letā€™s take a look at how I did last weekā€¦
 
 

Goals for Round 1:
 
 

1– Work on my current WIP five days a week.
 

2– Check in with Donna Newton at WWBC once a week.

Well, unfortunately I canā€™t say that I worked on my WIP for five days. I did check in with Donna more than once. Iā€™m still trying to narrow down a few more plot ideas before jumping back into writing the remainder of the first draft.
 

3– Participate in my online class to help authors balance writing and business with Bob Mayer.

The class just received our first assignment on Friday, so there wasnā€™t any participation except for our initial introduction into the class. All I can say is this is going to be an incredible class.
 

4– Blog at least once a week.

Iā€™m happy to say that I did achieve this goal. In fact I posted three blogs if my ROW80 check-in counts as a blog. Whew. Back to my original plan this week.
 

5– Visit and support 5 bloggers per day.

Check. Did that and more. And found some wonderful blog posts by the way.
 

6– Tweet at least once per day.

Check. Did that more than once per day.
 

7– Exercise on my elliptical twice a week.

Well, uhā€¦Nada. That didnā€™t happen. I didnā€™t even get a walk in last week. Say what?
 

I know, I know. I am so disappointed. Every time I turned around there was something demanding my attention.
 

So Iā€™m now looking forward to a fresh new week.
 

Whew, okay I did it. That wasnā€™t really so bad. And Iā€™m not alone. There are others that are right beside me to help me along the way. So that I donā€™t irritate my wonderful supportive subscribers, feel free to delete my ROW80 posts if they start to irritate you. They probably wonā€™t be all that interesting, unlessā€¦
 

Unless I can temp you all to join us over at the party at ROW80! Feel free to jump in anytime. See you there! šŸ™‚
 

So what do you think? How did I do? I wasnā€™t able to meet all my goals, but are you all still behind me? Can I still count on your support?
 

Awe, thanks guys! I knew I could count on you!
Karen.

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ROW80: Kicking and Screaming!

Why do I say Kicking and Screaming?
 

BECAUSE I DONā€™T WANT TO DO THIS!
 

Iā€™m way out of my comfort zone here! But okay, Iā€™ll do it!
 

You see, I need to kick my rear into gear. I need to get back to novel writing and put some balance back into my life. My lifeā€”after Kristen Lamb.
 

Now donā€™t get me wrong. Kristen Lamb has my utmost respect as the Super Social Media Queen of the Universe. She really knows her stuff and I really loved her class. Butā€¦
 

Iā€™m way out of sync and itā€™s time to whip myself into shape!
 

This sounds way too much like exercise. Do I really have to do this?
 

Okay, okay. Here it goes!
 

Here are my goals for round 1:
 

1- Work on my current WIP at least 5 days a week. In saying this I mean work at it like itā€™s my job. Do I want to put a word count on this? Uh, wellā€¦no. I know whatā€™s normal for me and Iā€™m happy with that. I think itā€™s a quality verses quantity thing. So this being my first Round of Words in 80 Days, Iā€™m keeping it simple. Low pressure sounds good to me.

2– Check in with Donna Newton over at WWBC once a week. If more often Iā€™m afraid I would drive poor Donna nuts. lol
 
3– Participate in an online class for authors taught by Bob Mayer. This should be good. Iā€™ve taken a class by Bob before and I learned a lot from him. Heā€™s teaching authors the business side of writing and how to balance both.
 
4– Blog at least once a week. (If I can post a blog twice a week, thatā€™s great. But I know that I can at least post one blog. Iā€™ve got Hubbyā€™s spinal surgery coming up in two weeks and rehab, so Iā€™m cutting myself some slack.
 
5– Visit and support 5 bloggers per day. I consider this a priority. I want to support the success of other bloggers!
 
6– Tweet at least once per day. Helping promote others on Twitter is another priority.
 
7– And because I mentioned exercise at the beginning of my post, this has to be an important goal. Iā€™ve been walking a few times a week, but staring at my elliptical isnā€™t cutting it. So Iā€™m making it a goal to get on that machine at least twice per week. This way I can whip myself into shape in more ways than one! Not that Iā€™m in bad shape, but I know Hubby will certainly like this and Iā€™ll feel better about myself!
 

Whew, okay I did it. That wasnā€™t really so bad. And Iā€™m not alone. There are others that will be right beside me to help me along the way. So that I donā€™t irritate my wonderful supportive subscribers, feel free to delete my ROW80 posts if they start to irritate you. They probably wonā€™t be all that interesting, unlessā€¦
 
Unless I can tempt you all to join us at the party over at ROW80. See you there! šŸ™‚
 
 

So what do you think? Can I do it? Will I be able to meet my new goals with renewed zeal and exuberance? Are you all behind me? Can I count on your support?
 
 
Awe, thanks guys! I knew I could count on you!
Karen.

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Guest Post by Angela Peart

I canā€™t tell you how excited I am for Angela Peart to be my guest. Like most of you, I was drawn to her gravatar on Twitter and Facebook. Have you ever seen anyone exude so much happiness within a single shot of their face?

Yet, I have learned there is much more to Angela Peart than simply meets the eye.

She was European born and raised in the country of Poland and now resides near Seattle, Washington while balancing her many responsibilities as a wife, mother and writer of Adult, YA and Childrenā€™s literature. She is a hopeless romantic, a self-appointed organic food ambassador and an environmentalist with a passion for watercolor paints.
 

A romantic organic environmentalist? Love that!
 

It can be no surprise that Angela prefers sunshine over rain, loves all types of music from Train to Chopin along with one of my personal favs, jazz musician Jesse Cook landing somewhere in-between. She has an exceptional flair for salsa dancing. Arriba! And on any given day she can be seen wearing her designer heels to the least of appropriate places.
 

Her sonā€™s soccer practice? Okay, we wonā€™t go there.
 

So with the everyday juggling act that Angela has to face, how is it that she is able to keep her focus and what has helped her to achieve her many goals?
 

Well with 2012 just around the corner, Angela is here not only to answer that question, but she is going to share with us her highly motivating formula for success!
 

So without further ado, I am thrilled to introduce to you, Angela Peart!
 
 
 
 

Thanks Karen and hello everyone!
 

As was mentioned, our lives can easily get in the way of our main objectives and achievements.
What Iā€™d like to do is share with you what has helped me and many others to change that by
keeping us accountable while successfully achieving our goals.
 

Whatā€™s the best thing about it?

It really worksā€¦
 
 

ROW80 Straightened My Twisted Perspective on How To Achieve My Goals.
 
 

We all have goals. It must be in the human nature to realize what our desires are and to shape them into the quantifiable and time-targeted intentions simply called ā€œa list of goalsā€. Some of us have a long list, while others might only have a few items on it.
 

Or maybe there is just this one goal that is strategically placed in front of other goalsā€”we consider it most important for our immediate future. Perhaps we have a list of goals that are connected to one another, like stepping stones: the completion of some of them strictly depends on achieving the preceding ones.

 

Our goals are usually formed on a realization that our life is currently lacking somethingā€”a better job, a slimmer body, healthier eating habits, a fulfilling hobby, etc.

The list might include the goals that have formed simply because we have achieved this one specific goal in the past, but until now we havenā€™t attached any strings to it.
 
 

For example, letā€™s say Susie bought a gift certificate for Amy at a craft store. Amy, who has never been very crafty, went to that store and examined various items without really knowing what she should be looking for. Finally, some fabric caught Amyā€™s eye and she spent her gift certificate on the fabric along with some thread and needles (per the store clerkā€™s suggestion). Amy took all her purchases home, but she had no idea what to do with them. Susie brought Amy some quilting magazines to look through, and Amy decided that she loved the way the quilts look. So what happened next?
 

Amy had a goal!
 

Her goal was to sign up for a quilting class, which she did. But she needed a sewing machine. So her next goal was to save enough money for that purchase. This was Amyā€™s goal number one, and as you can see, it made it to her list because of the completion of her previous goal (taking the quilting class), which was also on that list because of another preceding goalā€”spending her gift certificate on something crafty.
 

This example shows us how we end up with some of our goals without even planning them ahead of time. Just like Amy in my example, we might end up with one goal creating the next and then the next and so on. Amazing how these things work.
 


 
A list of goals might be quite straightforward but the road to completion is often filled with many obstacles. Every now and then we throw our arms up in frustration and quit. Sometimes a goal slowly slips away from our focus and we conveniently ā€œforgetā€ about it. Other times we seriously try to achieve a goal because we know all too well that without completing it we might lose something we donā€™t want to give up. This is a ā€œworking under pressureā€ scenario that most of us know from experience.
 

I have set up all kinds of goals in the pastā€”some of them I have accomplished, but some I have discarded for various reasons. Iā€™m sure everyone has done their own share of both: great achievements and epic failures.
 

Then last summer Iā€™ve heard for the first time about ROW80.
 

One of my WANA711 buddies Kerry Meacham was participating and posting updates on his blog. I got very interested in learning more and, after doing a bit of a research, I decided to join several of my other WANA711 friends who were signing up in October.
 

There is a bunch of us participating in the current ROW80 round, which ends on December 22nd.
 

Iā€™m already planning to sign up for the next round, and my main reasons are explained below:
 

1. ROW80 is a simple way of structuring and working toward achieving our goals.

2. There is a certain amount of camaraderie and support among the participants.

3. By participating in ROW80 we naturally become a part of a fabulous, compassionate and inspiring writing group.

4. We put our goals (and a pledge to achieve them) on a display, which makes us accountable in the eyes of the other participants (and anyone who reads our updates). In my opinion, this is one of the greatest kinds of motivation.
 

Number 4 is my favorite part of ROW80 because if I am not held responsible for meeting some my goals, I might never achieve them!
 

Everyone who takes part in the ROW80 displays in their blog the official badge that looks like this.

There is also a hashtag of #ROW80 on Twitter where the participants not only post links to their updates, but simply socialize, exchange advices and words of encouragement.
 

Sometimes we set a goal that we truly believe we are capable of achieving but, in the process, we might learn otherwise. The reasons behind us not meeting that goal might be completely out of our hands.
 

Carrie Spencerā€™s post on trying to fulfill her dream to learn how to juggle is a great example of it. Carrie has discovered that she has a problem with depth perceptionā€”thus will not be able to ever master the art of juggling.
 

I also would like to share with you some of my ROW80 friendsā€™ goals and methods of reporting their semi-weekly or weekly achievements or failures.
 
 
Check out Natalie Hartfordā€™s list and her swanky calendar-based reporting. Quite impressive, isnā€™t it?
 

Gene Lempp is one of the ROW80 Round 4 sponsors. He only has listed three goals, but they are quite substantial. The first one is to participate in the NaNoWriMo by writing fifty thousand words and editing it. By the way, Gene was one of the winners of this yearā€™s NaNo challenge. His other goal was to complete Kristen Lambā€™s Blogging for Writers course, which he did. I highly recommend this workshop for every writer who wants to learn how to successfully build his or her online platform.
 

And last but not the least, the brain behind ROW80: the fabulous Kait Nolan! Make sure you visit her Blog and follow her on Twitter.
 
 
Here are a few of my favorite quotes on goals:

A goal without a plan is just a wish.
Antoine de Saint

Man is a goal seeking animal. His life only has meaning if he is reaching out and striving for his goals.
Aristotle

Goals are dreams with deadlines.
Diana Scharf Hunt

You must have long term goals to keep you from being frustrated by short term failures.
Charles C. Noble

Without goals, and plans to reach them, you are like a ship that has set sail with no destination.
Fitzhugh Dodson

In life, as in football, you won’t go far unless you know where the goalposts are.
Arnold H. Glasgow
 

May I encourage you all to keep setting your goals and to consider ROW80 to help you achieve them!
 

So thank you everyone and to Karen for having me here as her guest.

Angela
angelapeart.com 
 
 

No, thank you Angela!
 
 

After this encouraging post I think weā€™re all ready to join you over at ROW80!

I know I am!
 

So what do you think? Do you create lists of goals? And if so, how do you stay focused on achieving them? Do you participate in ROW80? If not, would this be something that could help you stay on task? I would love to hear your ideas and stories of success and/or failure.
 
 

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Thank you for your many thoughts and kind comments everyone!
Karen

 
 

And a big thanks to all my new WANA friends and all others that may grace my presence by visiting this post. Take care and make it a great day!

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